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Sunday, December 21, 2014


This is our 2nd most popular blog post ever. It was originally posted two years ago but I still get questions via inbox on this issue so here you go again...

Guys/some Gals; have you ever got to that point of intimacy with a woman and then as soon as her panties fall off you are hit with an awful unbearable smell? So awkward! It is even sadder when the woman in question is highly tolerant to the stench...Tsk Tsk Tsk. I believe that nobody is perfect so pleaseeeeeee ladies take note!

Make sure you have the following things ready:

(a) A clean washcloth

(b) Lukewarm/or warm water...No hot water or cold water. Harmful bacteria grow at a faster rate when cold or hot water is used.

(c) No Soap needed....Personally I don't use any soap at all on this sensitive part.

***Soaps in general especially Scented soaps are very bad for the vaginal health***.

Note that the Vagina has a natural aura which is sexually arousing to men. That's just part of nature. Also, the vagina is a self-cleaning "device" so therefore not much effort is needed to keep it fresh & clean. In case of infections contact your OBGYN....Excessive vaginal discharge and/or a foul fishy type smell are two of the most common tell-tale of an infection. Get it checked out by your OBGYN right away.

Step-by-Step Instruction on how to clean the Vulva & Vagina properly

(a) Using a clean washcloth and lukewarm water, wash the vulva, spread the inner & outer labia with your fingers and wash thoroughly to eliminate any discharge or dead skin cells that might be present...This is a very sensitive part so don't scrub too harshly.. Rinse thoroughly. Repeat this step if needed. 
***Do NOT wash your Anus with the same washcloth used for washing your vulva***.

(b)Towel yourself dry when you step out of the shower. Some detergents used to wash our clothes and towels are very harsh to the vagina so it will be a good idea to avoid friction when drying with a towel. Personally, I air dry myself... Meaning: I walk around the house naked till my body is completely dried. I think that's the best method.

(c)Use only a dab of Unscented OZ oil or Unscented baby oil if you need to moisturize the external area of the vulva..Do not allow it to get into the vagina. Better yet, no lotion at all....Absolutely No Scented lotions, sprays or deodorants. Failure to do so infections will come knocking! ***Remember Yeast grows more in a moist &warm environment***

(d) Wear only cotton under wears...The Vagina needs to breathe!!!! On that note, G-strings, T-strings, Thongs are NOT good for you... These will make you prone to Yeast infections.

(e) When sleeping, it is best to sleep with NO underwear. Except if you are on your period or have some kind of infection.

ON A FINAL NOTE:  Avoid scented sanitary products, and absolutely NO DOUCHING!!! NO DOUCHING!!!... If for any reason you need to douche, use only 1 cup warm water mixed with 1 tbsp plain live yogurt. Not for an everyday hygiene upkeep. A lot women douche almost on daily basis, Please Stop it!!!!!!


This is our most popular blog post ever. It was originally posted two years ago but I still get questions via inbox on this issue so here you go again...

In few of my previous posts, I mentioned how women ought to clean their private parts and keep it fresh always, so this post is all about you guys...Yayyy!!!
Many guys complain that women smell like fish down there, some say it smells like burritos, tuna, decayed fish, sardines, etc and I once heard a guy say that his girlfriend's private part smell like a sweaty billy-goat...WTH? Seriously, that is preposterous. I bet his claim have no merits whatsoever. I mentioned in one of my previous posts that women have natural aura and no, it is not the smell of a billy- goat, sardines, burritos or any of that nonsense.

Guys, the truth is that a lot of y'all suffer from extreme case of smelly balls "syndrome". Please don't bad mouth a woman with poor hygiene if you know you are brewing your own "sewage" down below as well. Smelly balls are no joke and can be a potential red flag when it comes down to intimacy and sex. Seriously, no woman or fellow man wants to go down there and pass out from a kickboxing stench. My guide today will serve as a tool to help you improve your personal hygiene. I will only discuss this briefly but I encourage anyone with questions or more in-depth suggestions to please leave a comment in the comment section below. If you have a personal question, feel free to send us an email or just post a comment via anonymous and we would get back to you as soon as possible.

                   Things you will need for cleaning:

(a) A clean washcloth......I prefer washcloths made from 100% cotton...very gentle on the skin.

(b) Unscented lotion...or Any of Johnson & Johnson baby lotion products..very gentle on the skin and it keeps you smooth & flake-free too.

(c) Clean dry towel

(d) Soap of your choice...Between, Axe products are awesome..just saying!

(e) Warm water

(f) Unscented baby wipes
  • First of all, make sure your pubic hair is well-groomed/trimmed. Even if you hate shaving or waxing completely, pleaseeeeee endeavor to Trim your pubic hair.
  • Using a clean washcloth dampened with warm soapy water, scrub your penis and your balls thoroughly. Do not scrub too hard to avoid irritation and so on.
  • Remember to lift the shaft up and wash thoroughly. Failure to do so can result in accumulation of foul odor. In this step if you are uncircumcised, pull the foreskin away from the head of your penis before washing your penis. Failure to pull the foreskin back will cause in build-up of dead skin cells, dirt, oil and even bacteria, and it is very unhygienic, and can cause infections too.
  • The perineum should be given an utmost attention. This is often a part that goes unwashed by some guys. Scrub it thoroughly. This is a part close to your rectum so failure to do so will result in unpleasant odor.
  • When you are done scrubbing, dry yourself with a clean towel and make sure the penis is pat dry too. Apply a dab of lotion. Avoid heavily scented lotions because they can be very harsh on the skin thereby causing irritation.
  • Many guys complain of having smelly balls after working out or sometime during the day before their night shower and so on. The best thing to do for yourself is to keep unscented baby wipes handy at all times. This is a lifesaver because if you are at school or work and notice you have smelly balls, all you have to do is grab some baby wipes and wipe your penis & balls down completely. This will keep you fresh till you get home for another shower.

Some guys mentioned using Talcum powders or baby powders after shower to keep fresh. This is a No-No. Talcum powder is a CARCINOGEN (Cancerous)...

***Consult your physician if the smell is persistent***

If you have more tips, suggestions or questions please leave a comment below or send me a private message!...

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Own Your Body

Own Your Body is a mini shop affiliated with Spreadshirt inc. They have fine quality custom made Tshirts, other apparels and accessories for both men, women and children. One more catch; you can actually contact the seller to customize some items for you, yes just for you. How cool is that? Check it out and be sure to bookmark it because new products are added daily.

Disclaimer: Absolutely no monetary compensation was made for this review.

Friday, November 1, 2013

Looking For A Job?

Finding a job these days is a hassle and I speak from experience. The economy is in shambles and it's sad to know that having just a Bachelor degree in some cases is quite useless. Anyways, if you cannot find any job in your State of residence, consider applying to out of state jobs & keep relocation in mind as well. I have a friend who graduated from Nursing school with BSN & honors, but she couldn't find any work here in New Jersey or even in New York for a long period of time. Nevertheless, she went ahead and applied to some out of state jobs in States like North Dakota, Texas, California, North Carolina, etc. Long story short, she now resides in Texas and has a solid career. It would be a good idea to start considering out of state jobs if you are going through what my friend went through.

To make your job search easier, consider going to sites like:

  • (my all time favorite)

Sites like is full of spam and fake jobs. Avoid sending your resume when contacting a potential employer on craigslist. Ask for company info including website(if any) so you can fill out an application via the website. Personally, I won't apply to any job on craigslist which doesn't include a person's name or company's info and an actual working phone number. I have to make sure the individual/company is real before sending out my resume. Protect your personal information!

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

"Spread The Interracial Love"

Richard & Mildred Loving

Today marks the 46th anniversary of Loving Day. Loving Day is an an annual celebration held on June 12, the anniversary of the 1967 United States Supreme Court decision "Loving vs. Virginia" which struck down all anti-interracial marriage laws remaining in 16 states of the USA.

"The case was brought by Mildred Loving, a black woman, and Richard Loving, a white man, who had been sentenced to a year in prison in Virginia for marrying each other. Their marriage violated the state's anti-miscegenation statute, the Racial Integrity Act of 1924, which prohibited marriage between people classified as "white" and people classified as "colored." The Supreme Court's unanimous decision held this prohibition was unconstitutional, overturning Pace v. Alabama (1883) and ending all race-based legal restrictions on marriage in the United States.
The decision was followed by an increase in interracial marriages in the U.S., and is remembered annually on Loving Day, June 12".

If you are in an interracial relationship/marriage today, you owe Richard & Mildred Loving a whole lot of thanks.

Excerpts from: WIKI